Overbearing sibling

Katy

Hey ladies! So this morning I just found out that my step sister, who is an RN, just transferred jobs to the hospital I will be delivering in and applied for a position in labor and delivery. She ended up getting the job. For most, that wouldn’t be an issue. But I have stated several times that I didn’t want visitors until we got home, even though covid may fix that for me. This is a very special moment for my partner and I and i want it to stay between us. She is an extremely nosey person. But she has been so determined to get in there that I feel like this is seriously just a scheme to do so. She even told me if she couldn’t get in she would have some of her nurse friends come check my son out. What? NO. I don’t think so. She’s told me she wants everything that she’s bought for my baby back, when she has a baby. She is not yet pregnant, but my whole pregnancy has consisted of when she has a baby. She’s even let me know that she’ll be announcing she’s pregnant right before my son is born or right after. “Probably.” I’m such a nice person and I hate hurting feelings but I feel like my privacy is being walked all over. Is there a way I could ask my doctor to prevent her from being in the room or coming into the room period, when my son is born? I just feel helpless, like someone has an ulterior motive for the birth of my son and I can’t stop it. 😒

Glow Resources

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.

25+ million

Users

4.8 stars

200k+ app ratings

20+

Medical advisors