When to call it quits

So I had a talk with my boyfriend last night about some of my concerns regarding our relationship (his mom doesn’t like me bc i’m not Catholic and we’re going to Washington to stay with her for a week and i’m very stressed out because the last two trips were awful) and it turned into a lot of mean and very hurtful things being said. We pretty much broke up and haven’t really spoken today (we live together). I’ve been in one room doing homework and he’s been in the living room. I’m sad and upset about the things he said to me last night and i’m not sure if i can get over it. He was immediately remorseful once I started crying, but now I know how he really feels.

He basically said that I’m a difficult partner to be with because I’m depressed (I was sexually assaulted and the trial is literally next week), he said that he can see why his family hates me, it’s inconvenient being with me, and that he’s exhausted in our relationship.

I said that if he feels that way, we shouldn’t be together and that’s when he got scared and started saying sorry and hugging me and said he didn’t mean it. I was once in a toxic relationship and my current boyfriend is usually a really good communicator, but the way he acted last night scared and hurt me a lot. I will not go back to being verbally abused or tore down because someone else is hurting. I already have a lot to deal with and I can’t get his words out of my head. He’s the one person I want to console me and comfort me during this scary time (my trial) and now I don’t want him anywhere near me. I don’t know where to go from here.