identity crisis

Hey all. This feels absolutely ridiculous but yet I am really struggling with this.

6 months ago I moved back in with my parents after being away at college for the last 4 years. I am planning on moving in with my boyfriend at the end of the month, who lives in the same town. Ever since I told my parents/2 brothers they haven't stopped talking about who gets to take over my room. (My 2 brothers share a room). I haven't really lived at home since going to college 4 years ago but my room has stayed the same and has still been my room.

Now my family is very adamant about one of my brothers moving into my room when I move in with my boyfriend. But I don't want them too! It's still my room and I want it to stay that way. It has been my room my whole life and I don't want it to be anyone else's room.

For the last few months I have been slowly getting excited to move in with my boyfriend. Now that its basically here and my family wants to take my bedroom away from me I am devastated and am no longer excited to move in with my boyfriend.

I know how ridiculous it is, but please help 😅