I hate how hard it is to know!

Been feeling off today. Had sex earlier and it felt like I was being stabbed. Went on a walk and baby felt so low. Been cramping on and off for two hours. Feels like period cramps and then sometimes feels like BH. Stomach is so hard. Underwear were just a little wet but no clue if it’s discharge or not. Haven’t lost mucus plug that I’ve seen.

I have a short cervix so I’m so nervous that I won’t know until it’s too late.

Why is it such a mystery to know if you’re in labour???