Horrid in laws

Ma

Just need to rant a bit. To start off we own a home, pay our bills always on time, keep food fully stocked, take care of all our son’s needs, and all while not asking for help; but I constantly hear from certain family how we shouldn’t even be thinking of other children even when that’s not relevant to the subject. But these same family members are fawning over people’s children who’s parents aren’t even as well off as we are and all the same age, I just don’t get it and it’s honestly very hurtful. Does anyone have any tips about how to handle these types of family members?