Red flags?

Ok so a friend of mine pointed out that he's concerned about me and my new relationship, so figured I'd see what you all think. I'll just list off the things my friend is worried about. I'm 31 with 2 kids and a history of abuse. He's 41 has a daughter with his exwife who he has part time.

The day we started officially dating he told me he loved me.. had only known each other for 10 days.

At 2.5 weeks into our relationship he was evicted from his apartment. The reasons for his eviction he told me was that his landlords boyfriend was moving in. I being overly nice and somewhat stupid said if he absolutely no where else to go he could stay here until he figured something else out. He had an apartment lined up but ended up getting scammed out of $1200. The day he had to be out he called me and said he was just moving his stuff into storage then he'd be "home". It was never a conversation, he didn't seem to even attempt to find somewhere else to stay (he has lots of family in town). My parents and brother live with me an my kids for financial reasons. So thats already 6 people in a 4 bedroom. Now its 8 people. I've yet to see him actually look for another place. Finally asked him after 2 weeks what he can afford/is looking for so I could help and well he'd be lucky to find a room for rent on his budget. So I feel like he just expects to stay here. Which is not an option. I hardly know him really.

He seem to be a very angry person, road rage, impatient when at a store/beach/ anywhere in public that there may be other people who could annoy him.

He's a very sexual person and daily will bring up doing anal, which I've told him may never happen. But he'll bring it up and then say "whenever you're ready no pressure"

He wants to be with me 24/7 and gets jealous easily.

He'll kinda make me feel guilty when I am not in the mood for sex. Which he wants daily. So i'll avoid going to bed until he is asleep some nights.

My youngest daughter is 8 and she has ADHD and bad separation anxiety and can be very whiney/needy on her bad days. He will end up snapping at her which makes it all worse.

Him and I are complete opposites in personality and he complains about me not being a morning person, or active enough and says "he will fix that"

I'm sure there's other things I'm missing. I know my parents are annoyed with him often cause hes kinda a know it all.

I know this is long so if you made it to the end thank you.

UPDATE: I've asked him to find somewhere else to stay. He doesn't seem happy about it but he didn't fight me on it. Once he's out I'll play it by ear and if things continue, end it. Thanks ladies!