Do you think it’s difficult to date a man with a problematic babymomma?

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He does what he’s supposed to do for his child & pays child’s support but she constantly bothering you and trying to make y’all lives hell!

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A lot of times when the baby mama is causing issues, it's because the guy is still playing games with her. Sometimes still sleeping with her. When a man calls his ex crazy, a lot times it's because of how he treats her. There's always more to the story than you're getting from him. I wouldn't want to be involved at all.

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Yes and it never ends. Do you really want to deal with that forever? And if you think it will eventually stop.... nope.

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Not worth it in my opinion. I watched my sister go through it and vowed never to put myself in that situation. My sister struggled so bad. And I think it really hurt her relationship with her now husband. His ex would demand he come running every time something was going on with their kids. He would leave my sister pregnant and crying and then alone with their newborn son. It was awful to watch. Some women aren’t that bad. But my brother-in-law’s ex was and it scarred me.

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Until he sets his foot down and sets boundaries with her she will continue to do it because he is allowing it.

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My SO had to take his to court because she was tryna control him, us and our relationship by withholding the children. For example she didn’t let him see his children for three months when she found out we were engaged. And girl SHE STILL FINDS A REASON TO BITACH about nothing. If she knows he’s not home she will show up early to pick up the kids without any notice. Just come to the door demanding them immediately. I’m like I gotta get them up they’re napping, find and put on their shoes etc.  You’d think she’d know it takes time to get two 2 yr olds up and ready to walk out the door,  She just stood at my door continuously knocking and ringing the doorbell, not giving me a chance to do anything. Calling him telling him I’m tryna keep the kids. So I got my SO calling and her laying on the doorbell so I’m getting more and more flustered. The witch just does whatever she can to cause drama. You’d think when they get into a relationship with someone, they’ll calm down but no. In six years she ain’t never been happy, ain’t never been polite, and will forever be the desperate witch she was the first time I met her. If my SO wanted her right now, she’d jump at the chance to get back with him.

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Sometimes you need to think, hmmm why is she being this way? HE must be provoking her, or messing with her. Because mothers don’t go acting that way for no reason. My ex was fucking his ex baby mumma behind my back and she caught feelings and attached again and he would come back to me and treat her like shit in front of me calling her delusional and crazy to make me believe him. Does he talk her down to you? Call her names? Well darling there’s a saying that if he calls her nasty names or calls her crazy, it’s because he’s treated her badly!!! She’s acting out for a reason. I’d be looking into his actions as to why she’s acting this way

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I couldnt do excessive shit but yes im with someone who is very threatened by our consistency while she still has 2 kids in a one bedroom in a community house with her new babydaddy so any events we want the child she claims she has plans and to not be later or just cause drama shes insecure

Do you think it’s difficult to date a man with a problematic babymomma?

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