Am i bugging?

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Should I feel a way about my boyfriend saying that he needs a “ throat goat”? He has a tendency of saying things but not directing it at me. It wasnt said as if he wants me to be his throat goat. Am i over reacting? Or should i over react

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Did ya tell him he ain't on a god damn farm?

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Wtf does he even mean?

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Wtf is a throat goat??

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Lmaoooooo he wants someone who can give him very rigorous oral sex.

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The statement alone of him discounting your sex life and mentioning the need for a “throat goat” is extremely disrespectful and shows how little he respects and values you.  If you take a step back and see how that comment has affected your mental state and wellbeing, you’ll see that you even asking this question represents an unhealthy relationship.  your feelings of uneasiness, wonder, questioning whether you’re enough, questioning if he wants someone else are clear, and a relationship should NEVER make you feel like you’re not enough.  The tactic of men to mention things like this leads vulnerable woman to do things they aren’t comfortable with in the attempt to “keep their man satisfied” to maintain the relationship... but in reality these men are never satisfied, rather just want to see what they can squeeze from their partner before they move on to the next, leaving you to blame yourself based on his manipulative comments throughout the relationship.  Maybe I’m reading too much into this, but anybody that you’re in a relationship with who doesn’t have the balls to sit down and talk about needs re:sexual needs in a civil and respectful manner just screams FUCK BOY.  Stop putting this pressure on yourself... if you have him the pornstar blow job that you don’t enjoy... he’ll move on to the next thing and manipulate you into doing that too because he will see you’ll do anything to please him.  Honey he will walk all over you if he sees you lower your self worth and your desperation to pleasure when you’re getting nothing back.

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Maybe try to give him the best head possible and be done with it? And if you dont want to do that then say you cant/dont want to be his "throat goat". If you guys are in a relationship he doesnt have to directly say you, sometimes its just assumed. I say "i love dick" and my fiancé knows im obviously talking about his. Sometimes I add "your" but sometimes i just say the statement.

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Sounds like he wants better head. Time to learn some new tricks

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