Does your man not like sex?

Question

My husband just does not really like sex that much. He doesnt even masturbate ... we haven't had sex in almost a month and I feel so sexually frustrated. He knows this but I guess he wont really do anything about it, not even just take initiative and give me oral or manually stimulate me.. makes me feel under loved. Anyone else experience this or have any advice?

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I have, with my first marriage. Never did figure it out — he got circumcised shortly after we separated, so it appears there was a major issue with UTIs, under-stimulation, or something. I don’t know the full reason(s) for the curcumcision, I can only say that I myself wouldn’t spend an hour letting someone cut on my genitals over nothing. We never talked about sex much and neither one of us was really too comfortable with one another, truly, but what he always told me about sex was that he just wasn’t interested in sex and he didn’t want kids so he didn’t see the point other than to make me happy. He rarely attempted sex, but when he did, I could tell he just wasn’t into it for whatever reason. He was doing it because I wanted it, and he’d even lie to me and say he wanted it and enjoyed it, but I could tell that he didn’t at all. I remember the last time, I felt like I was raping him or something even though it was him who had asked for it. It was terrible and it only got worse the longer we were together. Don’t torture yourself — if you aren’t on the same page with sex, move on before you both are so mind-effed that you can barely function in any relationship ever again. That’s just my advice based on my experiences. It’s not something you can easily get past, js.

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Nope we are even arguing about it to this day. He said it’s my fault I’m not satisfied. I always feel like I’m raping him.

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No, my husband likes sex and he ia always worried that I am satisfied. I know sometimes he just masturbates and cum in 2 minutes and he is cool with that. 😅

Does your man not like sex?

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