What should I do

Question

So I am currently talking to this guy and he is honestly amazing and such a gentleman and he really makes me happy. He has everything im looking for in a man except there’s just one thing that’s kind of a deal breaker....I absolutely love children and my life will not be complete without having kids and being a mother whereas he hates kids and doesn’t want them although he said he might change his mind in the future. I don’t want to get super invested into this with him if we aren’t ever going to have kids in the future if things work out but in the mean time he’s really good for me and treats me so amazing. What should I do?

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Break up.
He hates kids and says MAY change his mind he's only saying that to keep you with him.
He won't change his mind and you'll grow to resent him.
I wouldn't waste anymore of your life with him.

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Oh girl! You are only 18 ?? Lol just have fun and get to know him now. Anyway, some guys at 18 doesn’t want kids. Go for it!! Enjoy your relationship and time will tell. At that age is not a deal breaker. After you pass the 30’s that’s when you have to think about the right person. The most important right now that he is kind and good to you. Enjoy!

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Well it depends maybe he’s just young and isn’t thinking about children right now I say wait it out if you absolutely find this guy amazing maybe he will change his mind I just wouldn’t wait too long￼ you might end up just getting hurt ￼

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My cousin was adamant at 18 and 19 that he didn’t want kids, he even tried to get a vasectomy and the doctor refused because he was so young. He met his wife and they got married at 22, who also didn’t want kids. Then about 25 he just changed his mind and they did some counseling and decided to go for it. Now he’s 38 and the best father to his two daughters. 
At 18, he might not know for sure what he wants yet and he could easily change his mind, but then again he might not. I would just have fun while you’re young and enjoy dating him and see what happens. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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Depends of how long you want to wait or not. When i was 21 I met my ex. He didn’t want to have kids anymore cuz his ex girlfriend used him to have his kid. Later, after 3 years on our relationship, he wanted to have with me. Well.. we broke up and moved forward. Now, I’m 32 and it’s deal breaker for me, I can’t waste my time with someone who doesn’t have the same goals. I’m not young like before, so if my partner doesn’t want it, I’ll move on. Just tell him what do you feel and if he won’t change his mind in the future, rather move on and find the right person.

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