Husband vent

We had 4 jackolanterns and 4 big pumpkins out in our yard. Well we had a few hot days and everything rotted really quick. I took all the jacks back to the garden and i figured maybe so can help me take these other ones back. Why should i be ghe only one that has to touch rotten ass pumpkins plus there kinda big and heavy so i probably shouldnt lift them. So i asked hubby multiple times since halloween. I asked him subtly, i flat out said can you help me take them, i texted him and said its not fair i have to do everything i only ask you for one little thing.(and he really doesnt do anything. He never cleans or picks anything up or anything)  everytime i asked he said ill help take them back. 

Well today i got sick of looking at them and went to pick the rottenest one up  first and it was so rotten i couldnt even get a hold of it so i went to get a bag to roll it onto and carry it back and he was like "get out of my  way." And he grabbed it out from under me and then threw it into the garden. And mummbled the whole way back there. 

Really... He does this with everything i ask him to do. And if i dont ask he says idk why you didnt ask me for help... I dont want to wait 3 weeks and than get attitude everytime i ask for something to be done. I legit rarely ever ask him to do anything. 

I asked him one time to take the old treadmill to the basement bc we didnt need 1  2 of rhem in the living room. 3 weeks later guess who took it down herself. I asked him to take a big chair out of the nursery when i was trying to get it together. 3 weeks later i took it down and then he said i dont know why you didnt just ask me for help...

Once i asked him to finish mowing the lawn. It was litterally 8 minutes left of lawn to mow, bc i had to meet someone at a certain time and when i got back it would be dark. I ended upfinishing  it in the dark when i got home that day.

Its slightly ridiculous. He has a rude awakening when this baby comes.if he doesnt help me with diapers and stuff i will start sticking dirty diapers in random places. Theyll be in his trunk, in his pillow case, in his suitcase. Wherever i can find a good spot, theyll be there.