Help! I Need Advice! 😕

Meg 👩‍👧🧿✨🪬

Okay so, my baby father isn’t in my daughters life rn. I haven’t seen or spoke to him since July of last year (when my daughter was conceived). Our relationship was really toxic and he was super abusive. He almost killed me quite a few times, has left scars on me. The worst abuse was happening the week I moved out of his house (I also was pregnant and didn’t know yet). I finally got fed up with the abuse and left him. I called the cops, filed a restraining order, blocked him on everything and later found out I was pregnant after all of that. My question is, do I unblock him and let him be in my daughters life? Or should I just explain to her when she’s older who her dad is, what he did to me and let her choose if she wants him in her life or not? He knows I had her and that she exists. But he’s never made any contact with me or told anybody else to make contact with me. I’m so torn. I want her to have her dad but he’s so unpredictable and I’m worried for her safety and mine.. She’s 5 months old today btw. Thank u ladies for any advice u may be able to give me! 😊

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