Confused.com

I’ve been with my hubby for 9 years and our relationship has always been up and down but I know I can always count on him but the last few months I’ve started to think about my life without him I know relationships are hard work but surely they shouldn’t be this hard I know I love my hubby but I’m not in love with him anymore I don’t want to leave and make a mistake but I also don’t want to stay and potentially be 50/50 happy/unhappy with my life 😭