Sex argument please help

My husband likes doggy style but it hurts me because he gets a little rough so he tries to be gentle and ends up a little rough so we always end up changing position. Well it started off with with doggy style and he started getting a little rough so I mentioned trying something new. We tried the backwards cowgirl for a few seconds and he pushed me off of him.Now he’s upset and me. He won’t kiss me he won’t let me touch him he won’t even talk to me. It’s not the first time I’ve mentioned different positions. I’ve mentioned different positions, toys and flavored lubes and all have been shut down. I need advise!