Crush on a Gay Man
So I've commented plenty on here that I have been dating my boyfriend long distance for almost 4 years. We're very happy, but last year at my college, I met this guy. I instantly started crushing on him. However, after extensive Facebook creeping, and actually asking him, I found out he was gay. Before this, I was seriously considering breaking up with my boyfriend to pursue him. This guy and I are really good friends now, but I can't help thinking whenever I'm around him "if he was straight, I would totally want to be with him." Even though I know there's no chance, I still feel really guilty. I don't want to stop being friends with him, he's pretty important to me. And while I've told my boyfriend I used to have a little crush on this guy before I knew he was gay, he doesn't know the extent of how bad I still feel about the fact that I'm actually still crushing on him.
If there is anybody who's gone through the same thing, or has any input, I'd love to hear what you think.
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