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Would you ever date a co-worker and keep it a secret?? I’ve been dating my co-worker he didn’t want to tell anybody about us which I was cool with at first but now I’m 8months pregnant by him and he still going around denying me and my baby to anyone who asked then tell me he doesn’t want people in his business it hurts now cause why keep my baby a secret

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Lol hell no. If you have to keep a relationship a secret, you shouldn’t be in the relationship at all.

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Ummmm since y’all are having a baby together he better be ok with people knowing that’s his child. 😬

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Sorry, where is your self esteem and worth? 
No way! That asshole deserves nothing from you! Listen. Stop seeing him, texting, talking, etc RIGHT NOW. And do it cold turkey! A guy like that is never looking for a relationship and didn’t want one or baby either. He doesn’t value you and he is probably never going to be interested in your baby or you. If you’re 8 months pregnant and he hasn’t changed (or gotten worse), then you need to wake up and face the truth. He is NOT going to change. He doesn’t want to. Period. 
You better ask yourself the question if you want someone like that in your life. Think. If you were having a girl, would you like someone to treat her this way? Are those the values you want to teach your child?  Most probably not! 
Pull yourself together, remember you are a GODESS and as such, you are not going to take any more disrespect from a prick, who doesn’t even respect himself! 
Don’t ever stay next to someone who treats you badly just because you’re afraid of being alone. You DO NOT deserve to be treated that way. You are worth something! And tell it to the baby too. He/She notices what is going on through you. So tell your baby it is loved and welcomed. Tell it to yourself and to it every night! He/She doesn’t deserve to be scared for life for some asshole with a superiority complex.

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You aren't his only girlfriend that's all I'm saying.
Dump. His. Ass. 
Like yesterday. 
You'll be better off.
A man that hides you is NOT a man.

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He sounds like a complete doosh!  You and your baby deserve so much better then to be a dirty secret to him...men like him dont deserve any woman let alone getting his dick wet in 'secret'

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I did and it was a fucking mistake.

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