Need to rant

I just need to rant for a second.

So I have a two year old son. Our stillborn son was born at 32 weeks on April 9 of this year. I don’t know what it is lately but I have been getting so many comments when my 2 year old just isn’t listening or you know, being a freaking two old, of people saying “oh are still glad you had him?” “Wish you could take him back now, huh?”

I was on FaceTime with my sister earlier and my son was in his baby pool just playing around splashing me and I told him to stop. Well of course he didn’t the first time. My sister says, “well aren’t you glad you had children now? I mean I guess it would just be child.” I just told her I had to go after she said that. It’s just been laying heavy on my heart.

Like when my neighbor said something about it, I said yes I’m so very fucking glad he is in my life.

What do you say to people if they constantly do this to you? I don’t want to be rude but I feel like people are so inconsiderate sometimes.