Would you be upset? Or am I dramatic?

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So I’m 10 weeks pregnant after having a miscarriage last December. It was a little traumatic but I have tried to overcome it and don’t think so much about it now and live in the hope that this pregnancy will end  well. 
Anyway me and my so just bought our first apparent together. We bought it before we knew I was pregnant(if we would have known we would have gotten a bigger one). I have wanted to make our bedroom bigger which my so have claimed is very easy.
His sister was here a week ago, and she disagreed with me wanting a bigger bedroom and she said one thing that stuck with me.. I didn’t think about it that much when she said it.. but after that I’ve been thinking alot about it. Don’t know if it’s hormones or me just being dramatic, but she said “you don’t even know if you will carry this baby full term so why even bother about the bedroom right now?... 🙄”.
What do you guys think? 🙁
I just want to be responsible and believe in this pregnancy. It’s not like I have a long history with miscarriages or anything.

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That is really a ride thing to say. It was definitely uncalled for and inappropriate. I'm sorry she said such a cunty thing. Good luck with your pregnancy 💕

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Sounds disrespectful to me 😬

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That is extremely rude to say, and she has no idea what that was like for you. I would be extremely upset and mad at her for how insensitive she was with you.

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Sounds like you shouldn’t be hanging out or hiving her baby updates that’s for sure. All the baby needs is you. Everything will be fine. Maybe a bigger space after a year or so.

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Ooooo that would NOT settle well with me

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A very thoughtless & spiteful comment. 
Bet she's jealous of you. 
I'd pull her up on it the next time I saw her. 
X

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Me personally, regardless of if i have had a history of miscarriages or not, i wait until 12-13 weeks anyways because for every woman the chance of a miscarriage is still there. It was terribly rude of the SIL to say what she did though, very inconsiderate of her

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I say stay clear of her because you need nothing but positive energy

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Yep I'd be pissed. I don't tolerate shit like that, if it were me I would immediately be done talking to her for good. Have done that with soo many people. But it makes for a much more peaceful existence.

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I must also add that I asked her where she would put the crib eventually as right now there is no logical place for it... if the room doesn’t get bigger. 
And she said we could just put the crib in our tiny walk in closet... 😳 I told her I want it to be for clothes and that it’s not any ventilation in there and she said “just get a fan”.... I’m not sure if she have terrible mother skills or if she doesn’t want the best for this child.

Would you be upset? Or am I dramatic?

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