My husband and I have been together for 6 years, married for 3 this year..in the beginning we had normal sex but it started to dwindle down to maybe once or twice a year. The last time we had sex was August 2019. I bring up my concerns to him in a non-confrontational way...I express how it makes me feel (unloved, unattractive, etc) it has gotten so sparse that I get so in my head I will throw up if we begin to have sex (we haven't attempted anything since August)....yall I know this sounds crazy. I am completely attracted to my husband but I dont think he is attracted to me. When we talk about it, he chalks it up to his anti-depressants but this has been going on for too long. He's talked to his doctor...had his testosterone levels checked and they're fine.

I do not know what to do....I am normally a sexual person but this has me so beat down. I've been trying to work on loving myself and realizing my self-worth but what do you do when you're married to a person that you don't feel is attracted to you? It just hurts and I hate this because it's so far gone that it's so awkward between us now. I know I'm rambling. I don't make the first move because I'm afraid of rejection...this has happened before. I don't know if this matters but we are in an interracial (I hate that word) marriage Any advice or kind words?