History of sexting other girls

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My husband has been caught so many times the past 10 years sexting other girls. Some he knew, some he didnt. Last time was 2 years ago. Anyway, now he has a "secure folder" on his phone. I only know because I saw it light up as it said "notification hidden, open secure folder to view"...should I just assume hes hiding some app to text women? Idk much about secure folders. But I cant rhink of a valid reason he would have one. I of course asked if he has been falling into his old ways and he promises he isnt 🙄🙄 last time I went and got my stuff and had plans to leave and then he groveled and cried and swore he would never do it again. We have 2 kids, so leaving is technically easy. And I feel guilty, which is wrong, when he cries and begs like that. Just wondering if I should let it go or assume it's bad. Like I said, idk anything about these folders.

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Ci

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Confront him about the secure folder. There's no reason he should be hiding anything so ask him to show you what's in it. Catch him off guard with it so he can't prepare by deleting it or anything. I would assume he's back at it given his past behaviour. I love and trust my husband but there is absolutely no way he could get away with that shit or hiding anything from me. We share everything and are open about everything. He can answer my phone or pick it up and use it and vice versa because there are no secrets. People often say oh but it's my privacy. No. My thoughts would be: Why would you need privacy from me? What do you need to keep from me?..Confront him. Try to get to the truth of it and if you don't believe or trust him or he's back at that shit then what's the point? It won't be good putting yourself or your kids through that in the long run and you've already given him chances to redeem himself.I hope you can sort it out and with the best possible outcome for you all. Its horrible when trust goes out the window like that, it's vital to continuing a healthy lasting relationship. Good luck ❤️🤞🍀

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Ask him?

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Amy • Jul 14, 2020
My bad I skipped right over that part lmao. Make him show you what’s in it

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👽 • Jul 14, 2020
I said I already did lol