A great moisturizer to avoid ingrowns after a brazilian?

I get sugared every 4-6 weeks and I exfoliate like crazy (with exfoliating gloves and exfoliating soap) before and in between but no matter how much I do nothing seems to help the ingrowns! I'll use tendskin sometimes but it seems to do more harm than good... usually just makes things swollen and sensitive! I used to use coconut oil but it just makes me feel greasy and oily (duh) and it's like the oil makes the ingrowns even worse! I've also used just a basic unscented sensitive skin lotion from walmart and it doesnt help at all either.😣 Anyone have any good suggestions????