Orgasming doesn’t feel good??

So I can usually only orgasm when my boyfriend eats me out and everything leading up to an orgasm feels great but actually orgasming doesn’t feel good. It feels like I just peed my pants. Is this how it’s supposed to feel?? I’ve tried using a vibrator and that didn’t feel as good as my boyfriend eating me out and the orgasm just felt liked i peed my pants. Pls help me. Any advice would be great!!