So my husband is getting mad a lot more recently. Which I find annoying because recently he has been deciding to play more video games and hang out with friends. Leaving me with our daughter all the time. We fought for quite a while about me getting a job since our daughter is almost 2 years old and he feels like I'm doing nothing. So I got hired at a job a couple of days ago, but since then hes blowing up on me saying stuff like "well if you were working" and " if you want money go get a job". Idk if hes just trying to use the phrases to hurt me but I dont care. What i care about is how hes treating our daughter. When he puts her to bed and she says no he will spank her now. He used to lay her down and tell her no. But hes getting more aggressive. I dont like it. I just dont feel appreciated anymore. Idk if I want to leave. I love him. But the way hes been treating me and our daughter is really pissing me off. I just want things to go back to the way they were a couple of months ago. I've communicated this before and recently and he decides to get mad and shut me down every time I talk and get mad, then insert his opinion before I finish even the first sentence I wanted to express to him about what's bothering me. I just am at a loss.