Question for those with friends/family that don’t get along

Victoria

I have friends and family who are not on speaking terms but I speak to all of them. I have to change the date of my baby shower for work anyway so I’m debating having one in person and one online. I was originally going to do a Facebook live video so no one could talk since I’ve had some funny experiences with the older generation using zoom. But I just left a friends in person baby shower and I think I’m really gonna miss out on that interaction. What would you do to accommodate people who don’t speak? One big party and everyone can suck it up or multiple little ones? I know I need to have the online option for out of town folks, but same question there too.