Wedding invites?

I really want a wedding celebration, but I’m unsure of what kind of wedding I want.

I could have a wedding with a good amount of guests, a destination wedding, or a small wedding with limited guests.

The problem is I don’t know what to do. One of my grandparents won’t travel. I’m not close to most of my cousins. And I only have 3 friends. My husband has a lot of friends, and no family. I also have family I just met 4 years ago and they’ve been so welcoming to me (Bio dad), but I don’t want to make it awkward for the man who raised me. I also don’t want to pay for people who really don’t give a shit about me and just want to have a night out on my expense. But I want my family and friends to have a good night dancing, relaxing, and celebrating with me.

What do you guys think I should do?

I’m open to options.