I’m overreacting ?

Yes I know

So I’m at work, I work at a hospital dealing with covid patients. My car has been broke down due to needing brakes and other things.

I’m not having such a great day been at work since 1 am in the morning I don’t leave into 1:30pm

My husband calls me I told him I’m not having a good day in I feel irritated So he tell me he is going to clean out my car.

Side note he never cleans my car nor put Gas in car ever

I said thank you and ask him to not drive the car.

He starts to Raise his voice telling me he only when to the gas station and I need to calm down nothing bad happen. Which I understand but my axe is also messed up in really don’t want anyone driving it into I get the full amount to fix the car.

I told him the car is just really unsafe to drive and I would like it if he don’t drive it cause I get worried a lot.

He start going on in on in so I told him to have a great day and get some rest and yes I hung up in his face.

He text me how disrespectful I am in how I took his car to work with his money in it which before my car broke down I ask him could I use his car to drive to work it’s the only way I can get to work he didn’t mind.

Side note I am paying for his car and right now he dose not have a job nor receiving unemployment to help out with food nor bills yet I have his email account to my phone cause he log in in my phone his self in never log out and saw his friends send him money to help out to bill in food yet he spent the money on Xbox games.

Along with my cycle being 2-3 days late I am a bit overwhelmed and stress on moody but I truly didn’t not yell at home I talk softly to him in nice yet he always takes anything I say I do to the heart. He also text me he will no longer be cleaning out my car.

I told him if he dose thank you but if not I understand my husband has a very bad angry issue so I’m also ways walking g on eggshells with him.

He his a good husband just he has a lot of growing up to do

He is 30 I am 26