Should I have sex before or after I DTR (define the relationship)?

Question

I'm dating a guy, went on multiple dates with him, he seems like a nice guy. Opens doors for me, pays for the dates, picks me up in his car, always on time (seems like every guy should do these things, but unfortunately they don't) and he's also a great guy. 
I got out of a bad relationship two months ago, but I realized with my last relationship I rushed jumping into sex rather than getting to know him more. Our relationship had no communication and was just built on sexual chemistry.
I want to say that I'll wait till we define whatever our relationship status with this new guy but what if the sex isn't good when we do have sex and we already determined that we would be in a relationship. 
I feel like sometimes sex can be a deal breaker. Also, if I am to wait until we DTR what are some tips to avoid getting too passionate too soon?

Answer

I waited to have sex (or do anything except kiss) with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months, I think it has helped us in our relationship because we knew we really liked eachother and it wasn't just about the sex. However I think as long as you want to have sex with him and you have already waited a little while you should go for it

Answer

I would wait, also because you and your ex's relationship was built on sexual chemistry and if you really like him and he likes you, you should be able to tell him that his sex is bad or atleast give him a few tips or less the way

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I would not wait personally the only really good relationship I've ever had was mostly based on sex

Should I have sex before or after I DTR (define the relationship)?

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