As long as it's healthy, but what if it's not?

So this article is kind of extreme and I don't agree with all of the points she makes but I agree with the general theme. Some of us know we are having babies who are not healthy and it annoys me when people tell me, "well as long as it's healthy!!" because my baby is not. Doesn't mean I will love it less. My baby is still my baby no matter what challenges we will face in life!