I know this is going to cause controversy but I don't care. If you don't like it, keep going. Some of the moms or soon to be moms on this app are so rude, disrespectful and fucking whiny. A lot of yall are babies yourselves. I understand some of you have lost children, it's hard, but that doesn't mean you can beat other moms down for doing things you don't agree with. I understand some of you have infertility issues. However, you can't beat down teen moms, or moms whose pregnancies were unplanned or moms who don't know if they want their child because your infertility was not caused by them. When ladies ask for genuine advice stop being so fucking rude and bitchy and offer them some if you have it. If you don't like the post, don't comment. Idc if the mom is asking about smoking weed or drinking or taking pills or going to a damn rave. If she is not asking "IS THIS OKAY?" then don't you dare fucking bombard her with your rude ass remarks calling her selfish, immature, telling her she'll be a bad mom, etc. If your comment doesnt directly answer her question then don't comment at all. Plenty of things work together to cause a miscarriage or preterm birth or a still birth. You can eat healthy and exercise and not so much as look at a cigarette and have a baby plagued with probelms just like you can do everything you're told not to and have a healthy baby. Stop being judgemental and mind your own damn uterus!