So just a bit of a backstory.. we’re both 29 and met in high school. We hooked up very briefly back then and he was more interested in pursuing a relationship with me then I was.. over the last 10 years we (mostly I) would pop in and out of each others lives every couple of years but without physically hooking up.. and every time we stopped talking it was because I for some reason wouldn’t give him a real chance.

Fast forward to literally only 2 months ago and I slid in his DM’s and we started talking and flirting like always and something just kind of clicked for me. Where there used to be indifference emotionally, was now strong and completely unexpected emotions.

We’ve been completely smitten with each other and talk about fate and wanting to really go the distance with one another.

He and I both have no children. We’ve both expressed at times that we’re not in a rush to have kids and the first time we had a little slip up he insisted I take Plan B.

Well, apparently he had some slip ups during my fertile window this month because fast forward to a few days ago: Positive Pregnancy Test.

I really don’t know how to tell him.. this is still new and I’m probably just as scared as he is.. but at this point in my life, I’m not willing to consider abortion.. especially after losing my dad 6 months ago. I just can’t see myself going through with it.

I don’t know what I really expect anyone to say.. maybe I just needed to write this to get it off my chest but if anyone has any thoughts or opinions please feel free to share.