My sister has been trying to get out of a toxic, co dependent, abusive relationship. This dude is straight up around every corner. He has hit her left her with black eyes and bruises. Has shown up to her work. Destroyed her property. Gotten her in trouble with the police.

She travels a lot for work. But she really does want to stay away. If anyone has been in this kind of relationship before you know how easy it is to get sucked back in. She’s 18 with a beautiful compassionate heart.

It breaks my heart to see her go threw this and I know I have no control over it.

Recently I have been doing interference for her. I control her social media accounts. The only phone number he has that connects to her is mine and my mothers. When she’s home she stays with me because he doesn’t know where I live. And I just want to ask.. because I also struggle with codependency with her. Do you think I’m putting myself in it too much? I want to help her and if it makes it easier that I hide her and control his access to her for my sister I want to do it. But I don’t know. I know it has to be her that does this.. I think I just want feed back

Edit: she has an order of protection and she is scared because he has information that could get her in serious trouble, possibly prison time. She’s working with a lawyer to get it cleared up. It’s just a process