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My sister that is 34 I just turned 33 lives with me with her 3 year old daughter I want to ask her to move out. I can't deal with her parenting skills she used to be really good with her daughter now all they do is yell at each other. I get barely any sleep then work 6 days a week. My sister pays me between 50-100$ a month to stay with me. I pay all the bills. I know if I ask her to move out its going to create bad blood between us. I just can't deal with the stress anymore with my baby due in Dec I feel like my child will never get sleep due to all the yelling all the time. Am I a bad sister for wanting my sister to move out? She has been living with me since July 2012

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Unless your bills are $100-200/month, you should have put her out months ago!

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My godmother has been supporting her little sister (who is a 53 year old woman and a disaster) for over 20 years. She now supports her niece and nephew who are disasters and now have children of their own who she supports as well.

She is 67 years old, has been working for over 40 years, makes over 130k/yr and hasn't been able to go on vacation with me in 20 years because she's supporting three generations of disasters.

Cut your sister off now before she runs your whole life.

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What the hell kind of kid is she raising that they're having yelling matches at  years old?!?! Sounds like kicking them out might be some much needed tough love.

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If she's always yelling at her three year old, she also needs some parenting help, since that never works.

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50 to $100!? Yikes, she should be wayyy more appreciative and thankful. She sounds like a spoiled brat...smdh hey, you have your own family to worry about. Its not like shes a teenager. Good luck ♡

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Hun it's Time for her to move out the last thing your baby will need is to be living in a Toxic environment & for her to have screaming matches with a 3yr old says a lot about her parenting skills I know that it may be overwhelming for her but what about You & Your Baby ????

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She's lived with you long enough & $50-$100 a month is not enough money at all!! Plus when your baby comes you're going to need a peaceful environment, not yelling and stressing you out. Do what's best for you and your baby. Your baby is #1 now, not your sister. Good luck!

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You are not a bad sister. I think you need to sit down with her and ask her to move out so maybe tell her you will give her 2-3 months to find a place.

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No, she's your big sister , she needs to et her shit together

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Time to go!

Seems like boundaries and a time table were never establish! It's never too late. You just need a delicate approach.

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