Boyfriend wants a female led relationship

So at the beginning of the week my boyfriend told me he wants a female led relationship. When he told me this I had no idea what it meant but after some research and talking with him i understand what it is. Although I am unsure how i feel about it. He basically wants me in control of everything and wants me to boss him around essentially. Now to me that sounds like a highly abusive relationship which I have been in with a few different guys so I’m uncomfortable with the idea of it. He insists he wants that and that he’s ok with it.

Has anyone been in or is in this type of relationship? If yes did it work out ?

Ps sorry for the long rant. Been trying all week to post this but couldn’t put it into words.