So me and my boyfriend have been together for 2.5 years but have known each other for close to 10 years. We have recently purchased a house that we are renovating and currently live together in a rental until the new place is ready to move into. He is such a sweet and caring man and is the type to always spoil me and remind me how much I am loved. I trust him 100% .

I have been cheated on multiple times in previous relationships but I try really hard to not let myself overthink things but sometimes I can’t help it I know I am a jealous person. So I was just wanting someone else opinion on my current issue (feel free to tell me I’m just being crazy 😅)

About a year ago we met a girl through a mutual friend and she quickly became part of our regular group of people that we hang out with. I get along with her okay for the most part but sometimes she comes of as a little condescending when she speaks to me. I hate confrontation so I have never said anything about it. Now the main issue is that I have noticed she messages my boyfriend a LOT and I get they are friends but we have multiple group chats with everybody in them but she always seems to send him texts (which I have not read because I don’t feel the need to go through his phone and I respect his privacy). They do work close to each other so she is constantly asking him to have lunch with her and for him to walk her to her car. This at first didn’t bother me because hey I’m a girl I get it can be scary walking to your car especially if you finish late but more often than not she is always working with a male work mate who closes up with her (I know this because I often meet my boyfriend at work to go get dinner after and she always seems surprised to see me and normally the four of us including whoever was working with her will walk to the car park). Another thing she does is that if we make plans to go out as a group she always ask my boyfriend for a lift every time even though she has her own licence. She never asks me or anyone else in the group and when we do end up picking her up I get shoved to the back seat because she gets car sick when she isn’t the one driving.

So I guess my question is am I just being a stereotypical crazy girlfriend or would I be okay to say something to her? Obviously I still want to be friends but I just feel like she could hang out with everyone else a little more and my boyfriend a little less.