So I’m currently dating a guy (1 month) and every time he stays with me, I’m always paying for our food and taxis. I think he’s bought me KFC twice 🤣 He has a job and I’m unemployed and taking the money out my savings because he doesn’t offer or transfer me money when he says he will... am I being used?

He’s a really lovely guy but I wish he’d pick up the bill a few more times - how can I suggest this to him without sounding rude?

Update: he just sent me - Babe do u reckon I can borrow 20 pounds when I come for busses to work xx and I’ll pay you back on the 28th the gym took 45 pound out my account I’m so fucked off

— the last time I looked at his account he had £300 so idk where that’s gone (probs when he goes out drinking with girls he’s previously slept with) but idk what to do anymore