14 yr old & 19 yr old?

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So I'm 14 and my bf of a year is 19. I've known him since I was born and we're very much in love. We live together at his moms (pay rent) as my mother left me homeless after discovering we had had sex. Thoughts?

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I personally think you're too young for him, to be having sex, and to be living with someone. But I'm Hispanic and my parents raised me the old school way.

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I'm ALL for age is just a number but this time I can't say this only because of how young you are it's much too young and being 22 I know exactly what 19 year old boys are like

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sounds more like babysitting you..

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You can't even legally drive and you're with a 19 year old? You're basically a freshman in high school, assuming you're still in school, and he's starting his life as an adult...not to mention he'd go to prison if this was reported by anyone.

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Are you focusing on school? Playing a sport? Exploring new hobbies? Thinking about college? Making goals? Because that's what a 14 yr old should be doing.

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that is illegal, so depending on how you look at the law.

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How are you paying rent when you can't even legally get a job?

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When I was 14 I dated a 19 year old and we lasted 2 years together. Now that I'm 18 I think it was the biggest mistake ever. Guys that are older tend to sweet talk and get you to do things you normally won't do especially that your not experienced. Through actual expierence don't bother. You should hold on with dating now or at least find someone about your age

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You just graduated middle school and he's out of high school.. I'd be questioning his motives if I were either of your moms. Being a mother myself, If my son brought home a 14 yo girl at the age of 19, I'd be furious. Live life a little more. You are a child and know much less than you think you do. Especially on the topic of love. If it works, it works. But dang. Your mom clearly had goals and standards for you that you didn't have for yourself which is sad.

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I've been in the exact situation, and yeah he's older but if the parents are okay with it then it's totally legal because they have consent to it.

14 yr old & 19 yr old?

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