Im a horrible mother

My daughter, who is 10, returned to school today. She goes a few times a week in person and the rest of the week is online. My mom has been texting me multiple times a day saying I need to be checking on my daughter to make sure she is doing her work and turning it in etc. If she's notnot that I need to do it. My daughter loves school and has never had an issue with doing her work. She knows, especially during these times, if she has any issue whatsoever she can come to me and/or her teacher. I've already spoken to her teacher and she's seems amazing so far and has kept in great contact about the plan for each week. I told my mom that my daughter is responsible for keeping up with her work. Of course I will check it and make sure she's understanding it but if she doesn't do an assignment on purpose , that is on her to take responsibility for. I told I'm a horrible mother and don't care about my child's education. Growing up, my mom would basically enable my brother and I with our school. There were countless times when she stayed up all night doing my brothers homework because he flat out refused to do it. I'm trying to teach my daughter to be responsible and not enable her. I'm not dependent on my mom in any way. I moved out as soon as I was 18 because it was an unhealthy home. I'm married now with 2 kids and my kids are very independent and responsible. How do I even respond to my mom? This isn't the only issue she feels she needs to have an opinion on. She treats me like I don't know how to care for my children when I feel my husband and I are doing great. Am I wrong for teaching my 10 to be responsible for her school work?