Problems with my marriage..

So I'm married to a man I literally cannot stand. We got married after only being together for 8 months. We have only Been together for 1 year and 3 months now. Everything he does irritates the living shit out of me. He never drops arguments and I'm so happy when he goes to work or something. I married him because due to him being in the military, I didn't wanna long distance relationship, as he'd be in a different state. Far away. I hate his parents, his mom is obsessed with him, and they've talked shit about me numerous amounts of times.

We are living together.

I keep thinking about cheating on him. He doesn't make me happy. I live about 8 hours from my home state. I can't just leave him, we have a bunch of finances together and we have bills together. I just don't know what to do

Plz don't say see a marriage counselor, bc I'm not the type to do that..... :///