Parenting a 2 year old advice

I’m looking for some advice around parenting my 2 year old. I’m a stay at home mom and I’m seriously hitting the end of my patience with my son and I need help. Pretty much from the moment he wakes up he does not listen to a word I say. At. All. I try and ask him if he wants to do something or Eat something and I get ignored. I tell him not to do something and he ignores me. He loves his dad to death and gets so excited to see him and spend time with him but couldn’t care less About me. I’m seriously just struggling day in and day out with his behavior. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. Any tips or advice on parenting a 2 year old are very appreciated. Thank you.