I want my sister in the delivery room with me not my spouse

He was there for our first and he was anxious and slept a lot of the time and while he tried really hard to be supportive he just was not very helpful for me and the birthing process. He didn't take any pictures, spent lots of time on the phone and when I was in labor he would kinda just hover and pace. When I pushed he pushed my head into my neck, bless his heart.

Now on the other hand, my sis is my best friend in the world, my rock, my support and she wants to be there and I low key need her there. She's always been able to to calm me down and has helped with my severe back problems in the past. She knows me on another level, like I don't even have to tell her what I'm thinking, she just knows. Honestly I really would be a lot more comfortable with her there than him as awful as that sounds.

Problem is that I can't have both there bc of covid and because I have a 4year old at home. I also think my hubby would be better with our toddler at home to sooth anxiety and maintain a sense of normalcy for him. Also, my sis is my only other family here and is not as patient with my son as my hubs is..my hubby is not as patient with me as my sis is.

Is this totally fucked? It's not like another lady's post where she wants a male co-worker/friend...it's my sister. What do I do? How/should/would I even approach this subject?! It's been eating at me for real.