barthlins gland cyst/abscess

has anyone ever experinced one of these? im on my first one and it was pure HELL i was so weak couldnt move or get warm had trouble drinking and eating. my catheter fell out the same day but unfortunately theyre closed on the weekends so i couldnt call them and the hospital didnt help. also seems to have formed again which what they said the catheter would stop i already called for tomorrow but i wouldnt wish these on anybody especially since they can come back 😩