Can I train myself to orgasm from sex?

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My husband can make me cum almost 100% of the time from oral sex and clit stimulation, but not from penetration. YES I KNOW THIS IS NORMAL. But I’m so jealous of y’all who can 😩 how do you do it?? Like it still feels good to me, just nowhere near enough to make me orgasm. Is there a way to train my body to do that? I just want to be able to enjoy it as much as he does! Sometimes I think we are too rushed during foreplay, because he just wants to get it going but I’m not totally warmed up yet. So maybe I just need to MAKE him slow down? Lol any advice helps🤷🏻‍♀️

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Okay so yes slow down and do you first.. I get numbed out but my husband usually likes to go faster but he always makes sure I cum first before he starts stroking or it takes me like 5x linger to cum... my favorite easiest position is riding so sit on him (with his cock in you obvi) with your legs kinda in a W and then lean forward (this position is nice because your tits are in his face so he can kiss and lick them and also it just puts your clit in the right area.. for me anyways) and so then I just grind on him back and forth and sometimes in circular motions (I start really slow and sensual and usually speed up but sometimes I cum literally barely moving) it’s amazing I hope this helps and then after you cum then you can bounce on it for him or he can flip you over and go to town but just ask him to do you first.. my husband wants me to cum like that’s what’s enjoyable for him so he doesn’t mind getting me off first and I’m sure yours won’t mind either it’s totally worth it

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It’s about the angle. My husband can make me cum from penetration but most men before couldn’t. But he’s also perfectly shaped and lined up for my g. But if you want to get used to the feeling and awaken that inner passion, have him find it with his fingers and stroke it. Get used to the feel. Tell him what you need when he finds it. 
As far as sex, I can always make myself cum when I’m on top. Usually when I lean back and grind back and forth. I make him wear a t shirt so I have leverage to grab like a saddle 😝 or I lean forward and grab the headboard and rock forward fast and hard. 
If he’s on top, bend your legs back as far as you can go. I literally hold my legs back mid thigh and he applies pressure to my hands pushing me back and he pounds. 
These are our tried and true. When we’re warmed up and ready to cum, this is how we do it. He’s not the most well endowed, average really, but it really is mostly all about the angle and once you hit it, you’ll know what you need 😉
Hope this helps!

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A small vibrator works for me, maybe that can help u

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If you are okay with using toys, find a small vibrator or a cock ring. That will make you cum while having sex.

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Bf always plays with me before penetration, and as I am starting my orgasm, he enters and keeps rubbing my clit. Idk how but I start losing my shit when this happens. Everything is contracting and he knows to stop rubbing and start pumping. Then I have the best orgasm from just him inside me.

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Slowing down helps but so does a toy. I have a small toy that is specifically for clitoral stimulation that I use during so I can orgasm everytime. The best part is that the clitoral stimulator makes me orgasm that first time and then I can turn it off and I'm so sensitive down there that I normally orgasm again just from him. I mean 2 seperate orgasms during 1 round is great and that second one is super powerful.

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missionary always works with my bf. he’s somehow inside of me but also rubbing on my clit in this position and it always works for me

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You can also start using love balls to train your vaginal walls. They have small weights inside which move everytime you do smth. They tend to slip out and that is when you will have to squeeze your muscles to train them. 
I use the love balls up to 30 mins a day usually when I go grocery shopping or for a short walk.
Look them up on google and give them a try. Good luck 😉

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It wasn’t until I was 34 that I had my first orgasim from penetration. For me, every time it is from missionary. I have to be very wet and the guy has to go between fast/medium and he has to hit a certain spot (kinda deep). It doesn’t happen every time but does happen more often lately. Only 2 guys have been able to that.

Can I train myself to orgasm from sex?

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