Found out controlling/jealous husband had been having in inappropriate relationships with Instagram girls.

December 2019 (yes almost a year ago) right before Christmas I found some awful stuff on his phone And Instagram. I was a few months post partum and never thought he would do anything to hurt me because he was “so obsessed “ with me he was scared I’d leave him even by taking the trash out🙄 Well He was really busy with work and we were exhausted from 2 babies under 16 months. So I let him sleep in my sons room. A month later this infidelity stuff comes to light. He did lock my sons room which I hated because what if we needed something? Literally I have never been so hurt in my entire life. We were very close to getting a divorce. I was in such a dark place. I felt disgusting. I have always wanted to do boudoir pictures for my husband so in February I got them done. We were still rocky but my friend was hosting them so I was like I’ll do them for me for now. We’ve been up and down for about 9 months now. He moved out for about 3 months. We now see an incredible marriage counselor and things were absolutely looking up. Well he told me the other day that “people🙄” have come to him about inappropriate pictures on my Instagram. Lol ok I haven’t posted a single pictures since thanksgiving last year. Turns out the “people” somehow found one of my boudoir pictures on the photographers page. My photographer did ask me if it was ok and I was like sure as my husband and I were not on good terms. Literally it is not any worse or showing anymore than a bikini picture. My husband deleted social media and now considers himself a “sex addict”. My husband is literally telling me that he’s never been so hurt and his world is ending and he had no idea about this. He saw every single one of these boudoir pictures because I showed him and also.... this was 6+ month ago. The “people” had to do some deep ass digging on her page to find MY boudoir picture because there’s a million other more recent boudoir pictures on her page. I DID NOT do it to get revenge nor do I even think it’s close to what he did to me. I asked the photographer to take them down and she did and that was really awkward for me. My husband also won’t tell me who’s been going to him about what they saw on my photographers page 🙄 HELP. What are your thoughts? I’m scared we are going back into his possession mode again. He is even saying the photographer is not a good influence on me? Like wtf?