These child free groups are gross.

I am childfree by choice. It’s not that I hate kids which I have previously explained in past posts. It’s just.. I’m either not ready and very aware of that, or I will just never have kids. It’s undecided.

I decided to join childfree groups on facebook. I am self reflecting on my decision to start a family, and I wanted to find a group where I could relate to people and I find that it helps to have insight when you are self reflecting on serious matters.

I did not expect to be added into one of the most toxic and hateful groups I have ever been in.

You wanna know what’s particularly fucking disgusting? Mom shaming. And I don’t mean the run of the mill mom shaming. It’s flat out shaming moms, for existing.

Calling pregnant and breast feeding women repulsive and disgusting.

Comparing breast feeding babies to parasites and maggots.

There was a comment verbatim “nobody wants to see your ugly ass baby sucking on your hideous swollen and disgusting tits.”

Scroll more, discover what anti-Natalism is.

Um, severe but okay.

See posts straight up shaming people for having kids. Shaming moms who chose motherhood when they’re in a rough spot, saying that women who have kids have ruined their lives. Shaming the vaginas of moms as if that makes any sense. Basically, think of everything bad and horrible you can say about moms and children and it’s there.

It’s not like I’m a mom so I can’t get personally offended. But that doesn’t mean I can’t spot “FUCKING TOXIC” when I see it. I get not wanting kids, 110% as a happily childfree person. I’m NOT okay with this. This just a group where ALOT of bitter people with mommy issues got together to drag moms any chance they get, say absolutely disgusting things and won’t have to answer for it.

That whole group “should have been kept in the drafts boo.”

Just what the fuck. If YOU don’t want kids, don’t fucking have them. I get that. I however don’t get whatever the fuck THIS is. It makes zero sense to shame and degrade people for doing ancient, completely 100% normal HUMAN things.

God damn y’all the human race would not exist if it weren’t for mothers. Fucks sake.

I have never turned my ass around so quick to leave a group and say out loud “yikes”

I am flat out appalled by the amount of people in this group. I’m appalled by how many people think this way. Don’t include me in that shit hell nah.

They are just as bad as people who shame childfree women if not worse.

Miss me with that awful shit. Jesus.