He never puts in the same effort

I feel like every single special occasion I celebrate with my husband I go all out for him and I get the bare minimum.

For example for his birthday this year I went all out, got him 2 mini cake towers, a whole different cake, custom candles, invited his family over, got his favorite food, and got him exactly what he asked for for his birthday!!

This year he didn’t even remember my birthday. I waited all day because I didn’t want to say anything while he was at work to where he’d say he forgot from working. Waited until the evening before finally asking if there was something he wanted to tell me. Good or bad, anything he wanted to tell me. Told me nope. I said oh so you did forget my birthday then?

He said he felt bad and this and that and he was going to take me out to dinner this weekend for my birthday, get me a cake this weekend, etc. Literally hasn’t mentioned anything since that night about dinner or anything. No, its not about being superficial or about money, but he literally didn’t even remember my birthday. We’ve been together for 5 years now. And yeah I’m pregnant so hormones might have something to do with it but I’m just hurt and angry.