Is that a bad thing?

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 months now, I just started at new job and I’m crushing hard on this guy at work. He works at a different department. Every time I see him I get all nervous and have butterflies in my stomach. I kind of sense the same thing from him too and he will find an excuse to say hi and say something to me. Is it a bad thing to be crushing on someone else while you’re in a relationship? I don’t wish or plan to act on it but still I can’t help this kiddy feeling with him.

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Yeah that’s a bad thing. You should leave you boyfriend so he can find someone who doesn’t think about someone else.

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Yes. If you really loved your boyfriend, I don’t think you’d be this attracted to someone else, especially so early on

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Yes that’s not okay. I’ve been with my husband for seven years and have never thought more about a dude more than “oh he’s cute” and moved on. If you can’t just like one guy and be in a relationship then you need to get out of it before you hurt your boyfriend.

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You just started your job and you’re already crushing on another guy? 😳 yikes. Seems like you’re not ready for a relationship you should just be single.

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Would you consider it a bad thing if it was the other way around? Your boyfriend's heart beating for another girl at work.
Dont do to others what you wouldn't like to be done to you.

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Sometimes when we think about something a lot, we start to attract feelings, emotions and even interactions that are unwanted. 
Your relationship with your boyfriend is still pretty fresh, it could be that maybe it’s just not right for you. 
I would it would be pretty hard to keep your relationship and the same work environment. 
I don’t think you should feel terrible about yourself do what feels right & I hope you find happiness.

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Yes it’s bad. Your partner should be the only person you have feelings for. I can’t imagine crushing on someone else besides my boyfriend, he’s the only one I’m interested in and committed to. It makes me think you should consider breaking up with your boyfriend because if you truly love someone then a different dude wouldn’t be on your mind.

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Yup it is definitely a bad thing. How do you feel about your boyfriend crushing on another girl at his job super hard? Yeah, I’m sure you wouldn’t like it.

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If you truly loved the first guy you wouldn't have any feelings towards the second guy. So yes that's bad

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You're lusting after your coworker that is a terrible thing you're also an a****** for thinking of that .your boyfriend deserves better

Is that a bad thing?

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