Scared To Ask This HERE!!

Lol. I am terrified to ask this question on this app but I'm honestly not sure who else to ask.

My BF and I have been together for quite a while now. He is AMAZING in the bedroom. I reach the perfect orgasm 1-2x each time we have sex. My problem is the "each time we have sex".... It's random and every blue moon (literally. The moon turns blue right?!)

We have great sex but it isn't frequent enough for me. I'm scared to ask this question here because I've read some responses to completely unrelated posts and the responses seem so cut throat.

My BF is a tad bit older than me. I am 30 and he is 39... How do I express or bring up the conversation of how often we have sex? I'm not an addict (just to make sure no one assumes that I am) but I definitely wouldn't mind 1-3x a week or day 🤷‍♀️...just being honest (especially at 1-2 orgasms each)

He likes to have sex when he wants it but can barely get it up or stay up when I want it.

Thanks for your advice. ♥️