Bf throwing me under the bus

Anyone’s bf paint you out to be a bad person in front of all of his friends??? I wanted a dildo since we stopped having sex (bc of waiting til marriage) and he literally texted his friend that I want one because I’m pissed that we cant have sex and I don’t care about what he thinks of the subject. I’m basically just ranting at this point but I’m so pissed at him. I spent DAYS telling him I just wanted to be open with him but I won’t do it if he’s uncomfortable. DAYS. Like please ruin my reputation for everybody just bc you feel small. that is so nice of you