i need help!!!

hi everyone :)

so my boyfriend and i have been together a little over 2 years, and we started having sex about 6 months into our relationship. reaching an orgasm even has been something really difficult for me. i have done it about twice that i can think of the entire time we have had sex.

i got a sex you for myself, because i realized my sensitivity down there seemed to be almost nonexistent 🙄🤧. i’ve been trying that for about two months now, and it has helped with myself quite a bit. my boyfriend and i haven’t used it during sec though, because i know he feels bad when he can’t fully pleasure me, even though i tell him it isn’t his fault. because it’s not. i just like i said, have a VERY low level of sensitivity down there that has only seemed to be stimulated by the sex toy.

long story short what i’m asking is, is it possible for people to just need and only really feel stimulation from the vibration of a sex toy and not fully from their partner?