Birth partner advice.

Hey, so I’ve been having a really hard time deciding on who to choose or how to break it down to my baby’s dad that I don’t want him there during birth .. I’ve had on and off problems with my baby’s dad during my whole pregnancy. He barley moved it not so long ago with me... this would be our first child together. I honestly feel like I’ve been alone , well without my partner my whole pregnancy up to now. Which is why I don’t want him there at birth but he insists and wants to be there. On the other hand I want my mom. She’s been there for me since I first found out I was pregnant till this day , her and my father have helped me so much and bought so many things for my babygirl and I without asking. I just feel like she’s been there more for me than he has, and I don’t know how to break it down to my baby’s dad that I want my mom there. Due to the pandemic I can only have one person in the room. I choose my mother, but how can I tell him without making him feel bad...